A Precious Lesson

Went to Tansy dad's wake recently. Learnt a precious lesson from her parents. Her parents used to quarrel quite badly for some time. It seems that their relationship has not been very good. Thus, Tansy always have to withstand the quarrel at home. However, the last few days of the dad's life, her dad ask his wife that they have been buddhism for so long, if he ask her to accept Jesus like he does, will she do it. She didn't give an outright "yes" but said that he is her husband, will do whatever he say. That's a submission attitude of a wife. Wow.

I've learnt, why waste our life having strife coming into our life when we can enjoy each other. So I tell myself, I don't want to spend time quarreling with Steven cos I want to treasure our time together. Don't want to let strife coming into our relationship. It takes 2 hands to clap. I shared about Tansy's parent to him, I wonder if he has caught the message too. Hmm....

Steven was not in good mood these few days. It's feels dangerous to have him ride his bike when he's not in a good mood. Worried. So everytime he wasn't in a good mood, I will just leave him alone for a while but will be beside him, holding his hands so that he knows, his gf still loves him. Will wait till he starts to talk and share, that's when I feels our relationship has drawn closer again. Then he will be fine.